He Has a Big Penis with Little Sensation. Advice??

Mon, 05/29/2017 - 07:50
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Dr Betty,

It has been a few years that I'm following you from France. I'm 30 years old now and I had many sexual experiences with different men.

I would like to know what you think about my current issue. I've always liked sex and tried to be as free as I can as a woman and human being. I met a man, a few years ago, with whom I had amazing, metaphysical sexual experiences. Our parts were just made for each other and simple penetration was just perfect. I know it's not a goal at all but for example, we were so in fusion that we were always coming together (when he was ejaculating in me, the fact that his penis got even harder and bigger was making me come). Anyway, we broke up and since that time I never had sex like this with another man. I also realized that I was even more difficult to please than before as my expectations on this matter are big...

The thing is I met a very nice guy a few months ago with whom I wanted to be in an exclusive relationship and try something. We went out together for a few months but sex was very difficult. It was the first time this happened to me before.. he was not getting hard easily. After a few months, I broke up because it became a big issue between us two. I saw him a few weeks ago and we had sex again. Things have changed a lot, he lost weight, got some exercise and he now can have "normal" erections. So everything's should be perfect but it's not. I'm very surprised because his penis is very large and the thing is that I'm not feeling a lot of sensations... it's weird because I feel it in me but the penetration is not giving me a lot of pleasure. And after a few minutes, I'm getting annoyed and I want him to come. He's very happy with his erections now and he is getting a lot of pleasure so it's very difficult for me to talk to him about this.

I'm wondering what's the problem... is it just possible that our bodies do not connect (even if our minds do so)? Is it because his penis bends down a little and it doesn't rich my "G area"? I'm very confused and quite depressed about it cause it's an amazing guy who was here for me lately as I was going through difficult times (surgery in my uterus because of a benign but very big tumor...). I want to give him another chance but our sex is making me very unhappy (at least the penetration, the rest is pretty ok).

Thank you very much in advance for your "expertise" on what I'm living atm.

With love,

S

Dear S,

Sexual compatibility is a key factor to a happy sex life. Since you had the perfect partner it will be difficult to find another, but possible.

I suggest you hold off getting serious until you find another perfect fit. Just remember, a guy can learn to be a better lover, but the idea of a perfect fit is valid. Take your time choosing a long term partner.

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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Hi S Get your man or you and

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Tue, 06/20/2017 - 14:19

Hi S Get your man or you and go on www.pegym.com now if you read around about jelqing its a very simple exercise, done right it should get rid of his bend, its not a quick fix but slowly should find it works for him.

NOWHARD

Hi S Get your man or you and

NOWHARD's picture
Tue, 06/20/2017 - 14:19

Hi S Get your man or you and go on www.pegym.com now if you read around about jelqing its a very simple exercise, done right it should get rid of his bend, its not a quick fix but slowly should find it works for him.

NOWHARD

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