Her Clit Cannot Be Touched

Tue, 03/13/2018 - 15:31
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Dr. Betty,

My wife has given me a mission - to find out of there is a solution to her problem: her skin is super sensitive to touch (anywhere on her body), to heat (her skin literally bubbles), and to cold (breaks out in rash).

Our sexual dilemma is this: her clit cannot be touched, either by me, or by herself. She said touching it is like sticking your finger in an electric socket. She also cannot be fingered, nor can she have dildos or vibrators inserted. No latex condoms. She once tried a Brazilian wax, and swelled up for days (she had to go to her doctor).

Consequently, there can be no oral sex, no finger or toy play, only unsheathed penis intercourse - and even this will cause acute pain after about 15 minutes. She is frustrated beyond belief, she cries over it, to the point where she realizes that she is retreating from sex.

Any and all suggestions welcome.

S

Dear S,

I'm so sorry to hear of your wife's dilemma. I have never heard of such a problem before and have absolutely no advice except to give up on having physical sex with her. Perhaps she would consider giving you a hand every now and then or oral sex for a bit of variety with your masturbation. Under these impossible conditions, I should hope she would be willing for you to have sex with a professional sex worker. Otherwise you will have to depend on masturbation for your sexlife which would mean getting some good porn and several sex toys.

Definitely get the Flashlight which I've been told can feel better than the real thing. Perhaps your wife would enjoy seeing you pleasuring yourself. Or keep your own council and hire a professional sex worker to give you a hand or to enjoy oral sex. One thought came to mind.

Perhaps seeing a professional hypnotist might work. I keep feeling her skin condition might be psychological. The mind is a mystery that can manifest incredible things.

Dr Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time