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  • It Was a Weekend of Connection   2 days 17 hours ago

    I enjoy reading about Betty's workshops. So honest and personal, and always a growth experience for everyone and I know they all go on to enjoy a more masturbatory life. I'm glad she has them and shares them as she does.
    I didn't understand or appreciate masturbation years ago with my previous girlfriend. I felt her need to masturbate was a comment on my ability to please her and so we didn't talk about it. We broke after I discovered she had been masturbating regularly with a girl friend of hers since before we had even started dating. I discovered a drawer of vibrators and other toys and so she finally opened up with me. Even though I did my best to satisfy her, she had been masturbating during the day while I was at work and even in the evenings if I was away or had to work late. Her own work was part-time and flexible and she could sometimes work from home so it was easy for her in that way. Her schedule and workplace supported her masturbatory lifestyle.
    We broke up and I reflected on it a lot since. I realize now she merely had diverse orgasmic needs which included our own sex but also extended beyond that. Her other needs were diffferent but strong had to be satisfied through other means. She was simply making the best out of it and exploring and developing that side of herself.
    My current girlfriend is a masturbator and a fan of yours. I support her fully in her masturbation and that has actually spiced up our sex life and brought us closer together. I encourage her masturbation and take an interest in her orgasms and her development in that area. She attends a weekly tea with two other women each week where they share their methods, exchange toys, and masturbate. She has, on occassion, gone away on weekend retreats to a friends cabin, even a week long cruise once with them, where, among enjoying many other activities together, they "masturbate masturbate masturbate" as Betty says sometimes.
    I have learned to make time to masturbate more and enjoy it. Not so much the ejaculation as the journey getting there and so I edge my erection for a couple hours a day before finally ejaculating. I know that's become pretty common now days and so I'm comfortable with that.
    My needs are simply just not as intense as hers or my previous girlfriend's and I've come to terms wth that. But helping her progress in her mastubation gives me satisfaction I cannot describe. I actually developed a fantasy of her becoming a nudist and masturbating throughout each day with other women. She thought my fantasy was sweet and confessed that was actually about what her weekend retreats were and we both laughed. She said she would help me fulfill my fantasy if that's what I truely wanted.
    You and your bodysex workshops are the incarnation of that fantasy as well.
    Trevor

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    I agree with the idea that kids should know about such things like sex and sexual identity earlier. But how to know when to tell them. Clair is 4 now. Is it ok to talk to her? She has never asked however. I'm afraid she would not understand.
    And according to the statistics, only 5% of parents tell their kids about male-female differences starting from the age of 7-8.
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  • Sexual Desire Comes From Within   4 weeks 5 days ago

    I love this discussion on more than one level.
    I have a number of healthy guy friends (around 50 yrs old) who take great care of themselves through diet and excercise who have directly or indirectly indicated a gradual loss of desire in recent years.  I have experienced no such drop, and the only thing I am aware of that I am doing differently, is my continued very frequest (every day) and (multiple times a day) long duration (an hour or more each) edging masturbation sessions.  I have zero doubt that this has not only given me amazing pleasure, but has maintained a level of desire that is very high and no doubt made me a much better lover in the process.  I don't substitute masturbation for partner sex, but I desire more pleasure than any partner can satisfy in today's messed up busy world.  This way, I am ready for it when the situation permits, but don't fail to meet my needs along the way.
    Marti, I totally relate to some potential partners being scared away from someone who has adopted a masturbatory lifestyle.  The flip side is how wonderful it can be when you sift through enough people to find someone who gets it!  It's worth all the rejections and is such a find!

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  • Sexual Desire Comes From Within   5 weeks 3 days ago

    Betty and Carlin,
    Another great and honest message and i'm so glad you put it on youtube to be sure your essential message gets out. The art and practice of masturbation, when right, conditions our body for sex, nurturing and developing our orgasm and our very need and desire for it as well. By doing it right, it means masturbating regularly, often, and slowing down- extending it out so we can appreciate the journey to our orgasm when we do. It's in the literature and a method for ED treatment and couple sex therapy. It wasn't until I followed your guidance many years ago and embraced a highly masturbator lifestyle that I became multi-orgasmic and my sexual urge and appetite grew.  I masturbated more and longer and, as you teach, eventually put it at the center of my being. 
    Confessing that to men whom I would date sometimes drove them away but it's something we must do when finding a true soulmate. Men don't like to admit their need as perhaps they think it shows weakness and so I always encouraged my boyfriends to losen up and masturbate more, not as a substitute for our sex but to enhance it, in addition to it, and as an activity we can both share and talk about.
    A few have embraced a masturbation lifestyle along the way which I found quite rewarding for me as it I am sure it does for you. I was suprised by a few boyfriends who confessed they edged for hours at a time and masturbated often but always ashamed to admit that. Knowing they did not have to hide this from me was so liberating and self-affirming for them. Sex was the best with them actually.  I finally met a soul mate of course, and we both are avid masturbators and have the most wonderful sex. For him, he edges for hours a day, ejaculating multiple times.  He just needs that so much and so do I. We save our intercourse for each weekend and it is always special and meaningful and satisfying.  As y

    Marti

  • Carlin & Liandra Part II   5 weeks 5 days ago

    Oh Carlin, I haven’t been interested in women before but seen you naked, you make me want you :-)

  • It Was a Weekend of Connection   6 weeks 1 day ago

    Carlin, Such a nice rejuvinating session for you and I'm so glad you got back to what you love and ignites your soul. I have not had the oportunity and am not fortunate to have the social lifestyle you enjoy but the few occassions I have masturbated with a group of women, it has been wonderful. I enjoyed reading about the woman who moaned so loud and your supportive response to her. This is one thing about me that holds me back perhaps from doing it more. I can lose control when my orgasms are extremely intense and it can be embarrassing. For me, masturbating among other women makes my orgasms especially strong and so I hold back when I want so much to let go. I envy you your ability to let go and trust in others, to have a lifestyle and career than enables you to masturbate so much in a socially supportive setting. Trust me, I would be right there every day if I could.  LOL
    The experienced I have had have helped me so much in my solo masturbation and orgasms though, and for that, I am greatful.  I'm an avid masturbator and highly orgasmic because of that.

    Marti

  • A Woman's Erection Needs 20-30 Minutes of Adequate Clitoral Stimulation   6 weeks 4 days ago

    Same for me. The fact that oral is so precise
    is why it works so wonderfully for me. Knowing
    that slippery pressure is enjoyed. Just enjoy.

  • Should people be allowed to masturbate anywhere they like?   8 weeks 4 days ago

    I whole heartedly agree, Marti.  I don't see why this can't be accomodated in the near future.  I believe that, as a man, every erection is a sacred gift, and one that should not be wasted, if at all possible.  I believe that it is natures way of telling me I need to slow down, take a break and get back to life's other activities after an adequate break.  It is a physical and emotional filled need.

  • Get a Second Opinion Before You Cut   10 weeks 1 day ago

    Hello Carlin,
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  • I Can Never Seem to Get Myself All the Way There   12 weeks 4 days ago

    7yeardryspell,
    You obviously love your wife and are concerned and wish to remain faithful to her or you would not be reaching out like this. It's not easy for men to bare their soul as you are so i wanted to respond.
    You both receive much love and support from each other and the only thing missing really is your need for sexual pleasure and release. She has changed and you both need to accept that but your need has also grown and you both need to respect that as well. Pressuring her into something she knows she can no longer provide would not help your relationship but you still have a healthy penis and need to fell that pleasure and release and she should understand and support that as well.
    I suggest you both talk about it in just this way and I'm sure she will understand. Take Dr. Betty's teachings to heart and focus on your own self pleasure and embrace masturbation like you have probably always needed anyway. Make time for it, turn it into something fun and exciting and, who knows, you may like it more than you might first anticipate. Also, masturbation these days need not be solitary. It's become very common for men who have embraced masturbation fully to masturbate with other safely, on-line. They find it helps increase their motivation as well as the intensity and frequency of their ejaculation which is a good thing. Who knows, you can remain faithful to your wife but may evolve into a sexual, orgasmic being you never knew existed within you.
    Marti