Overcoming Shame & Guilt

Posted on the Mar 13, 2018 by Carlin Ross
We have this cultural myth that if we leave young girls in the dark about their bodies, deny the clitoris, and shame them against sexual experimentation (thank you virginity myth & slut stigma)...
Posted on the Feb 25, 2018 by Carlin Ross
YES
Posted on the Jan 15, 2018 by Carlin Ross
After trauma, the first step is self love.
Posted on the Dec 31, 2017 by Carlin Ross
Every Woman on the Planet Has Been Sexually Traumatized. At best, we've been objectified, demeaned, shamed, guilted, and manipulated into believing that we don't deserve pleasure on our own terms...
Posted on the Sep 23, 2017 by Carlin Ross
When you can pleasure yourself & share it with a partner that is the essence of consent.
Posted on the Jul 12, 2017 by Betty Dodson
Hi Dr. Betty, I feel a bit abnormal for admitting this, but I have never liked being touched. Massages, pedicures, etc. are fine, but I don’t like hugs or kisses, even from my husband. When he...
Posted on the Jun 06, 2017 by Natasha
“Shame is the intensely painful feeling or experience that we are flawed and therefore unworthy of love and belonging.” Brene Brown Last month I attended a conference that included a workshop on...
Posted on the May 17, 2017 by Betty Dodson
Dear Betty, I have recently experienced something confusing and I would love your perspective. I met a man with whom I have unprecedented chemistry. We had mind-blowing sex, he was by far the best...
Posted on the Feb 26, 2017 by Betty Dodson
Hello! Thanks for your time. I don't know how to respond to people about this. I know the insult isn't justified, but I do like sleeping with multiple guys. People say I put myself at risk too much....
Posted on the Dec 09, 2016 by Natasha
I wrote the following blog post nearly 3 months ago yet haven’t had the courage to share it until today. Wondering what was holding me back I sat with it for awhile and realized that it isn’t that I’...
Posted on the Jul 12, 2016 by Rebekah Dyana
My mom, my sister and I have a new and deeper level of closeness now. A year ago I would not at all thought that possible. I felt a wall between us and it would not come down. I had my ideas about...
Posted on the Jun 21, 2016 by Julia Emerald
The world is just waiting for the power in you to come out.   This week I did a practice Bodysex round with my assistant, Vega DeLeon, and I was reminded of so many important truths. One was...
Posted on the Jun 13, 2016 by Lisa Kan
I sat in the courtroom with my heart pounding. I had been fidgeting for hours. When my name was called I felt like I might vomit, or pass out, or both. It started out as a day of jury duty. No big...
Posted on the Jun 10, 2016 by Carlin Ross
Generate your own pleasure to work through negative experiences.
Posted on the May 13, 2016 by Carlin Ross
Pleasure is the healing & independent orgasm is self-knowledge.